Even though my cat can’t speak aloud, she is constantly trying to find ways to communicate with me.
Whether my cat is “meowing” because she’s hungry, or pawing at my legs because she wants attention, she finds ways to let me know exactly what she is thinking.
While I can’t read her mind, I know that she is also constantly finding new ways to tell me she loves me. And just as there are specific behaviors through which a dog communicates love, experts also report that there are specific, unique ways that our cats are saying “I love you.”
This exclusive list of behaviors delves into the incredible ways that our cats attempt to communicate their love for us.
And while I knew a few of these already, most of them were quite surprising. In fact, I was shocked by just how often my cat has been trying to show me how much she loves me!
Which of these signs has your cat been displaying to let you know that they love you as much as you love them? Let us know in the comments!
1. Kneading Your Legs
Kneading is when your cat uses their paws to push in and out against a soft surface, such as your lap. This is one of the main ways your cat tries to say “I love you.”
According to the experts at PetMD, “If your cat is curled up and kneading your lap while you’re petting him, he’s returning the affection and telling you he loves you right back. Unfortunately, this can be quite painful, since the happier he is, the harder he’ll dig in with his sharp nails.”
They recommend that you ease the painful part of this kneading by “placing a thick, soft barrier between the cat and your lap.”
2. Bringing You a Present
You may be familiar with your cat bringing you presents, such as toys or small, dead animals. This is your cat’s way of showing love.
Certified Animal Behavior Consultant Amy Shojai writes, “Cats love with gifting. Mighty hunter cats that catch everything from toys to bugs, mice or frogs, often share the bounty with those they love. Kitties who present you with this bounty deserve praise.”
While it might seem odd, Shojai says, “They wouldn’t bring these special gifts if they didn’t love you.”
3. Head-Butting You
Head-butting may seem like an odd behavior, but it actually shows that your cat truly cares about you.
According to the experts at Mother Nature Network, “Cats have secret glands concentrated on certain parts of their bodies, including their cheeks and heads. When your kitty rubs her head or faces against you, she’s marking you with her scent and claiming you as part of her family group.”
They continue, “This scent is a source of both comfort and familiarity for your kitty.”
4. Staring Into Your Eyes
Staring at you and slowly blinking is a way in which your cat shows you great affection.
Dr. Karen Becker writes, “This might be the display of cat love that is easiest for humans to understand. If your kitty first stares at you, then blinks, then opens his eyes wide, then slowly blinks a second time, he’s telling you he loves and trusts you.”
She says this is an extreme sign of affection. “It’s the equivalent of being kissed.”
5. Showing You Their Belly
The flashing of the stomach is one way that your cat is saying “I love you.”
According to IHeartCats.com, “Like most animals, cats do not show their stomachs to just anyone. If your cat rolls over on its back to give you a flash of that fuzzy belly, this is an indication that they feel comfortable around you.”
They continue, “Not only this, but they feel loved and protected by you, rendering themselves defenseless while on their backs.”
6. Curving the Tip of Their Tail
The tail can actually be an incredible barometer into how your cat feels about you.
In an essay entitled Ask a Behaviorist: How Do Cats Show Affection to People?, Catster writes, “Kitties express happiness and warm feelings by fluffing out the base of their tails while subtly quivering them. Simultaneously, they hold their tails upright with a slight curve at the top.”
They continue that this tail curve “is sometimes called the happy tail dance.”
7. Nipping You
Don’t get mad, because gently nipping at your finger is another way your cat is saying that they love you.
According to Dr. Karen Becker, “This show of love from your kitty can prove to be a bit painful… [but] your cat really doesn’t understand her love bite isn’t always pleasant for you.”
These love bites can also be seen as your cat interacts with other cats. “Kitties nip each other affectionately, and their skin is tougher than ours.”
8. Rubbing Against Your Legs
When your cat just can’t seem to get enough of your legs, that is likely a sign of true love.
Dr. Karen Becker writes, “Rubbing against another creature is how cats show affection. If your kitty rubs up against your leg… he’s putting his scent on you as a way of claiming you as his own.” This is quite similar to the head-butting behavior.
“It’s important to your relationship and bond with your cat to allow him to rub against you.”
You’ve heard your cat purr before, but you may not have realized that this was a loving purr.
According to certified expert Amy Shojai, “Cats love with purrs. Her purrs can mean a variety of things, from delight to expressions of concern. And kitty purrs range from soft and subtle to Mack-truck loud.”
In case you had any doubt, she writes, “When your cat purrs in your presence, you can be sure she’s expressing her love for you.”
10. Following You Around
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